Small hotels, family-run hotels, swanky big hotels, we'll liaise with these gems to check that they understand the latest safety best practices, are updated with women's varying travel preferences, and, importantly, they want our business so entirely that they've offered us some perks.
If you had a great solo experience, tell us what you loved about it. You don't have to write much, and you certainly don't have to write creatively, just tell us what you liked, we'll do the rest.
Every submission is verified. We'll chat with the hotel and check that they practice, where possible, our recommended safety standards and other best practices for solo female travelers. We'll also see what perks they can offer you.
Approved hotels get a pin on our map and our readers can read your review along with our own comments (we'll show you before posting). If you wish, you can be alerted when readers post a question about the accommodation, and add to the chat (solely on the MITCH site, your private details are not shared). Your name won't appear on the review either, just your alias for this site, and photos if you've submitted some (but none that identify you).
Every 20 submissions enters you into a £50 prize draw. If you've sent a photo of yourself, we'll also sketch or generate a portrait which will look nothing like you. You can choose whether we add it to the listing.
Did you know that solo female travellers above 35 are the most underserved in the travel industry? The paradox is, whilst advertising is overwhelmingly targeted at families, couples and businesses, hotels LOVE solo female travellers. I'd like to say it's because of our instagrammable elegance, infinite patience and staggering class, but — thinking only about me — it might be that we spend a lot in the restaurant and are unlikely to start a bar brawl.
I discovered my love of being totally alone in a hotel at a fairly early age. It started with work trips. I'd be doing everything humanly possible to avoid breakfast with colleagues and then tacking on a few extra days of annual leave to maximise the experience. Soon it became an addiction — I'd be arriving on holidays with friends three days ahead because 'flights were cheaper', 'making a week-long holiday' of people's stag and hen weekends, and 'visiting friends' in faraway cities but I 'didn't want to infringe' on their families.
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I've actually been to Vincci Mercat twice — the first time for a few days alone after a rather exhausting few days in Ibiza! Eight years on, at 48 years old with two small children, I found myself daydreaming about that same alone-time. Still tired but for wholly different reasons!
It was exactly what I needed, both times — large enough to be anonymous when I want to be alone, small enough to give a personal service and make me feel safe. It has a tiny bit of a business-hotel feel (for which there is a special place in my poor cluttered heart) — it is clean and crisp and practical but warm.
Best of all, they have a tiny roof terrace, bar and pool. Exactly what I needed — I had the best margarita and some meaty cheesy treats. It was midweek and I was more or less alone up there, but for the bar staff who would speedily appear when I rang for them. It was so small and perfect I felt like it belonged to me.
The staff also brought me many coffees to my room and gave me a very late checkout. It's so quick to the airport, and they organised my taxis.
Both times, I found small Spanish restaurants on strips in Old Town Valencia to be friendly, welcoming and delicious — just walked by them and took my pick. I went for brunch at La Más Bonita in El Cabanyal, which is by the beach and a 40 minute taxi from Old Town Valencia. I also walked from the hotel to Ruzafa quite a lot — it had more laid back Spanish vibes, with so many great bars. Cafe Berlin was my favourite for a solo drink, and runs language exchange nights which are not just for students. I had brunch and a platter in the hotel — both gorgeous.
Valencia is just perfect for a relaxed break — there's culture if you want it, amazing and great value restaurants and an (admittedly far away) beach and harbour. Besides the usual tourist sites (which are easy and remarkable) what I most love is that Valencia feels very 'normal Spanish' — local people just going about their lives — not picture postcard perfect scenes, but much more beautiful. On the second stay I met with a friend who lives in Ruzafa (and was greatly annoyed that I chose to stay alone in a hotel). Ruzafa is maybe 30 minutes walk from the hotel and has bars and authentic Valencian breakfast spots worth exploring.
A sanctuary that happens to have a very good bar. Small enough to feel like yours. Well-placed enough that you never have to try too hard.
TBC — to apply these, either book through MITCH (you'll need to fill in our confidential questionnaire first — we won't share your details, we use only group statistics for market research) OR fill in our questionnaire to generate a discount code which you can use on their website. This discount code applies for all bookings and is personal to you.
We're not just looking for a nice hotel. We're looking for hotels that get it — places where a woman travelling alone feels genuinely welcome, not merely tolerated.
We're not a homogenous group, but women who have responded to our questionnaire tend to express certain preferences. Some will be shared by other travellers, others can be specific to solo travelling women. Similarly, the respect and consideration that women have enjoyed in some places can vary wildly according to local culture. If staff are briefed in our hotels to respect solo travelling women — women new to travel may just feel a little more comfortable taking those first steps.
Solo female travellers over 35 are one of the fastest-growing segments in European travel — and one of the least catered for. We're experienced, decisive, we book direct, we share word of mouth experiences, we can often travel outside peak days, we like to use hotel facilities like the bar and restaurant more than couples, we spend well, and we come back. Also, we don't often cause trouble!
MITCH exists to match hotels that understand all this with prospective guests.
Small hotels and family-run guesthouses are very much our scene — and the good ones often do all of this instinctively, but it can be a mixed bag and that is why we make sure that all our featured accommodations provide the following:
Each listing will also show whether the following is provided (in small hotels it's sometimes not possible, but that doesn't mean the hotel isn't MITCH friendly):
Eating alone, especially dinner, is still the moment many solo women dread. We love hotels that solve this quietly and well — bar seating, counter dining, a restaurant where solo diners are genuinely welcomed rather than tucked behind a pillar with a sympathetic look.
The single room is often the worst in the house. We flag the hotels that give solo travellers a genuinely lovely room — even if smaller. Good blackout curtains and a quiet floor matter more than the brochure suggests.
Tell us your recommendations. For every 20th recommendation we receive, we award one contributor a £50 voucher — drawn at random. So don't worry about how strong your writing is or how much your hotel impresses. Just fill in the template below.
We're looking for real experiences — the style of your writing doesn't matter, we want your authenticity to show through. Please don't use AI!
In the sections below, write as little as you like. Don't feel the need to be creative, witty or use fancy words — this is an authentic site of real women sharing tips for other real women. We might suggest some small amendments, we'll share the final text and you can accept or decline it.
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Every 20 submissions = one £50 voucher, drawn at random. Your name never appears. Your story always does.
If you book through MITCH you'll be entitled to whatever gifts and discounts we've negotiated with that hotel.
You'll also be able to specify some requirements at booking and, of course, the hotel will be alerted that you're a MITCH customer, and thus prized and respected! There is no cost, but we ask that you fill in our short research questionnaire. (You may have already completed this if you've submitted questions in our lounge chat).
The questionnaire helps us provide feedback to our hotels and negotiate discounts. The information is never individually shared — it is combined into research essays and stats, and never associated with your name.
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